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How to Make Friends in a New City as an Adult

February 11, 2022 By Melanie No Comments

It’s been nearly a year since we made the cross-country move from NYC to Denver and what a wild transition it has been. For several months I missed our former life in Brooklyn intensely. Despite the excitement that comes with a fresh start in a new city, there can also be a lot of pressure and fear. Friendships have always been incredibly important to me and moving somewhere where I knew no one except for my husband was daunting. I knew I’d have to prioritize building a new social circle and despite having done that when I made the move from Florida to NYC 6 years ago, it somehow felt scarier this time around.

The good news is, almost a year later I truly feel at home in this city and have fully embraced all the amazing things Denver offers. And I’m grateful that so much of the reason why I’m able to feel more comfortable here is because of the new friendships I made along the way!

Since I’m just one of many people who made a big move during these past few years, I thought I’d share some tips that have helped me make friends in a new city. These are entirely based on my own personal experiences and I hope you can find some nuggets that will help you in your own journey.

Use your current network

Before you make the move to a new location be sure to tell people about it! And I don’t just mean your family and closest friends. Chances are you have a wide range of colleagues (past and present) and acquaintances that may know some cool people who live in the city where you’ll be relocating.

Don’t be afraid to cast a wide net! The wider you cast, the more fish you’ll potentially catch right?

There’s really nothing better than personalized introductions and it’s one way that I’ve made an amazing friend here in Denver. I’m actually about to go ice skating with her and some other friends right now! The best part is if you share a mutual friend it’s one guaranteed thing you’ll have in common.

Say yes to invitations

It can be easy to fall into the trap of sticking with the one or two people you know when you move somewhere new. It takes effort and courage to make plans with someone you’re not familiar with. Even as an extrovert there are times when I’d much rather stay at home nestled up on the couch with my husband and pups than hangout with someone I don’t really know.

Hear me out though, you gotta start thinking with a “yes” mindset. If someone invites you to get coffee or go to an event, say yes and commit to it.

When I first moved here someone reached out to me on Instagram asking to get coffee. After our coffee date, she invited me to go to a work party that she was hosting at her house. I immediately said yes but the day of the event I started feeling super nervous! I would be “the outsider,” the only one who didn’t work for the company and I wouldn’t know anyone other than the host. Thankfully, nerves aside, I mustered up the courage to go and ended up meeting a girl who also had just moved from NYC to Denver. We instantly hit it off, became super quick friends, and now 7 months later we’re hosting a wellness retreat together!

So through this series of events, I gained two new friends. All because I said yes to coffee and then yes to an invite completely outside of my comfort zone.

Be a proactive planner

A good friend of mine who is no stranger to moving locations and subsequently making new connections, gave me a very useful tip.

After hanging out with someone, always make plans for the next time you’ll see them and put it on the calendar.

Not only does this eliminate the awkward “we should do this again sometime” sort of exchange but it also shows that you’re truly interested in seeing them again. We all have super busy schedules so by being proactive, you’ll find time that works for both of you before your calendars are booked solid. Not to mention it gives you both something to look forward to! This doesn’t work every single time but it’s a good habit to adopt.

Once you have a few acquaintances and friends, plan a group outing together! It’s always a great feeling to connect people and if they hit it off it also makes future hangouts that much easier.

Join a studio, class, FB group or club

Unlike our college days when friendships were formed based on being in the same classes or sorority houses, you have to seek a different kind of common ground as an adult.

Colleagues are a great place to start but there’s also something really special about exploring hobbies that you find fun and interesting.

I’m obviously partial to finding friends who are interested in health and wellness, which makes fitness studios a perfect place to make connections. But if forming new acquaintances while working up a sweat isn’t your idea of fun, don’t fret! I guarantee there are so many club and class options that are happening in your city. If you’re a bookworm, go to your local bookstores and see if they have a monthly book club. If happy hour sounds more fun to you, look into wine or beer clubs at local breweries! And don’t be afraid to join relevant Facebook Groups or Meetup.

By staying true to activities that make you happy, you’re opening yourself up to find more people with similar interests and personalities.

Don’t rush the process

It takes time to settle into a new environment and even longer to make new meaningful connections. The in-between time can definitely feel lonely but it’s also a chance for you to cultivate independence and repeatedly step out of your comfort zone. Whatever happens, don’t get discouraged.

Be gentle with yourself and recognize how much strength it takes to put yourself out there!

It may take longer than you anticipated to start creating true friendships but every new coffee meet or dinner date will make the process easier.

The truth is, making friends as an adult is hard work. It takes time and effort to build a new social circle but it 100% can be done. And truthfully, because you DO have the option to be super picky about who you surround yourself with, chances are the friendships you form now will be super fulfilling.

If you have any questions that you’d like to ask, please don’t hesitate to reach out. And if you’re in the Denver area and looking to connect — I invite you to look into my wellness group: Denver Fit Friends. I’ve been hosting monthly events and can truly say the ladies who attend have been absolutely lovely human beings.

With love,

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Watch me transform my outdated 1980’s shower into a dreamy, self care oasis thanks to @stepintosprig by Kohler! #SprigPartner 🚿🌿

The shower tiles got a fresh coat of white paint (properly cured to withstand the water/humidity) and I added in lots of new accessories and greenery, but the real stars of the show are most definitely the Sprig non-toxic candle and Shower Infusion System. 💦

The recyclable pods provide hyaluronic acid for skin hydration and clean scent therapy to match whatever mood you’re in (my favorite is the Sleep which has lavender and vanilla). The system attaches to whatever shower arm/head you have and fills your shower with scents that give you that spa-like feeling right in your own home! 🤍💦🌱

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✨12 Days of Holiday Self-Care✨. Gentle reminders to slow down and savor this beautiful season ❤️

DAY 1: read a festive book 

There’s nothing quite like getting cozy with a hot cup of coffee or cocoa and a light hearted holiday read. 📖 I’m currently reading “The 12 Dates of Christmas” but here are several others I would recommend:

🎄The Holiday Swap 
🎄One Day In December 
🎄 All I want for Christmas

My next few reads include “Comfort & Joy”, “In a Holidaze”and “A Winter in New York” ❄️

Do you have any holiday books you’d add to the list? 

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#ad Spend a self care morning with me at the NEW @westindcdowntown! You guys, I can’t get over some of the wellness amenities you’ll find in this space including: 

✨ a 10,000 sq ft fitness studio fully stocked with Peloton bikes, TRX equipment, Hyperice recovery station, weights and more
✨ the selection of healthy, colorful food at their Root + Vine restaurant (you can order room service from their menu too!)
✨ their @Westin Well in the lobby offering 3 different types of water to keep you hydrated during your stay 
✨ Bala and Hyperice Gear Lending Kits you can take to your room 
✨ Their Heavenly Bed, robes, slippers and Sleep Well Lavender Balm to help you wind down every evening
✨ Incredible location within walking distance of so many amazing monuments in DC (run path maps coming soon)

What do you all think? Would you book a stay here? 

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Instead of finishing the year strong, what if we slow down and finish it with gratitude & grace? 

This season tends to go by so quickly and here are 3 ways to find ✨peace✨ amongst the chaos: 

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☁️ 𝐓𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐨𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐫𝐞𝐟𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭: write down your highlights of the year, the things that you’re proud of and what you’re grateful for 

☁️ 𝐂𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐣𝐨𝐲: do the things that bring you happiness, spend time with those you love, give with an open heart and savor the beauty of the season 

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inventory is getting real low over here and all preorders will start going out in batches next week! If you want one in time for Christmas be sure to place your order online asap 🎅🏼🎁🎄

planner link is in my bio or go to shop.headstandsandheels.com 

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I got my 200 hr yoga teacher certification back in 2018 in traditional Vinyasa yoga, but over the years I’ve really leaned towards adding weights to my workouts. I loveee #yogasculpt classes and wanted to share some of my fav moves that I do often! 

SAVE this post for the next time you want to add a little ✨spice✨ to your routine: 

• backward lunge to bicep curl + knee to chest
• down dog alternating toe taps with weight 
• warrior 3 with row and fly 
• boat pose with weighted twist 
• squat to press 

I typically do 30 seconds on with 30 seconds of rest in between the exercises but you can work them into your yoga practice or workout in whatever way works best for you! 🔥

#wellnesswednesday #workoutwithme #workoutroutine #morningroutine #healthylifestyle #healthyliving #wellnessblogger #morningworkout #wellnessgirlie #healthyandhappy #morningaesthetic #morningmotivation

Tis the season for coziness, giving thanks, spendi
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Which holiday affirmation is resonating with you today? 

❄️ I am grateful for the people in my life 
💋Today, I choose to spread love and joy
⛄️ I will focus on what I have, instead of wishing for things I don’t 
🎄 My heart is grateful and my mind is at peace 
🎅🏼 Today is a gift and I will stay present and live fully in the moment 
🦌 I have the power to change my life 
🎁 I will reflect and celebrate the progress I’ve made this year 
✨ This season, I will stick to my boundaries and embrace rest when needed 
💕 I will slow down and appreciate the little things 
🍪 My wellbeing is more important than my to do list 

{wellness, self care, mindfulness, healthy lifestyle} 

#homefortheholidays #positiveaffirmations #romanticizeyourlife #gratitude #eveningroutine #littlemoments #lifelately #holidayselfcare #holidaydecor #holidaydecorating #mindfulroutine #happyandhealthy #datenightathome #cozyseason #cozyvibes #cozymoments #hyggehome

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Lemme tell you, after going through the process of creating my Mindful Morning Planner these past 3 years I have such a new appreciation for all the small businesses out there. 👏🏻 It’s been such a learning process but seeing you all use the planner throughout the past couple years has made it all so worth it. 

I am just SO incredibly grateful for all of you for your support and can’t wait to start shipping out all the preorders soon!!! 🎁

My hope as always is that this planner will help you cultivate a morning routine that leaves you feeling grounded, productive and joyful. xo 💋 

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I’ve got you covered with 10 categories and 100 gift ideas for friends, loved ones and yourself this season! I give you all the deets in the blog since many of the items you see are things I’ve personally tried, own and love 

✨swipe for a peep at 9 of the gift categories and head to the blog to start shopping✨

PS: I know literally every other influencer is dropping their own gift guide this week so it means the world that you’re choosing to view mine. This is one of my fav posts of the year and I hope it helps you get the PERFECT gift for someone dear to you 🥰

Let me know in the comments who you need help shopping for and I may add in some bonus categories next week! 

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Let’s make a festive matcha latte with homemade gingerbread syrup 🎄❤️ 

If you’re looking for a cheerful sip to get into the holiday spirit I 10/10 recommend making your own syrup to mix into coffee or matcha. It’s super simple and tastes absolutely amaaazing! 

SAVE THIS RECIPE: 

✨ 1 cup water
✨ 1/2 cup brown sugar 
✨ 3 tbsp unsulphured molasses 
✨ 1 tsp ground ginger 
✨ 2 tsp cinnamon 
✨ 1/4 tsp nutmeg 
✨ 1 tsp vanilla extract 
✨ pinch of cloves 

Bring all ingredients expect for the vanilla to a boil and then simmer for 5 min. Stir in vanilla extract and let cool before transferring to a container and storing in fridge! 

I’ll be over here adding this to my morning beverage all season long 💕. Let me know if you’ll be trying it! 

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#HappySnaps from #lifelately:

✨ Workouts + wor
#HappySnaps from #lifelately: 

✨ Workouts + work trips with my best friend 
✨ Date night at @oliversitalian 🍝🍸
✨ My favorite little furbabies 
✨ It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas 
✨ Playing dress up 📸 
✨ Friendsgiving with my @denverfitfriends team 
✨ The treat I deserve every time I leave my house
✨ Hogwarts Happy Hour 🪄 
✨ “Be Still”


“Just because someone carries it well, doesn’t
“Just because someone carries it well, doesn’t mean it isn’t heavy. ”

The challenges we face end up changing us. Sometimes our hearts break and we must pick up the pieces and put them back together. Other times the hardships teach us patience and perseverance. 

Despite it all we keep moving forward. We work, we smile, we make new happy memories. We gain more strength and resilience with the pain we carry. 

Along the way we meet other people who open up about their struggles, and it reminds us that not all battles are fought in the open. That many people carry their pain in silence and that it’s never safe to make assumptions about anyone. 

Everyone is carrying something you know nothing about — so this is a reminder to give people grace and alway, always be kind 🤎

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The shower tiles got a fresh coat of white paint (properly cured to withstand the water/humidity) and I added in lots of new accessories and greenery, but the real stars of the show are most definitely the Sprig non-toxic candle and Shower Infusion System. 💦

The recyclable pods provide hyaluronic acid for skin hydration and clean scent therapy to match whatever mood you’re in (my favorite is the Sleep which has lavender and vanilla). The system attaches to whatever shower arm/head you have and fills your shower with scents that give you that spa-like feeling right in your own home! 🤍💦🌱

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✨12 Days of Holiday Self-Care✨. Gentle reminde ✨12 Days of Holiday Self-Care✨. Gentle reminders to slow down and savor this beautiful season ❤️

DAY 1: read a festive book 

There’s nothing quite like getting cozy with a hot cup of coffee or cocoa and a light hearted holiday read. 📖 I’m currently reading “The 12 Dates of Christmas” but here are several others I would recommend:

🎄The Holiday Swap 
🎄One Day In December 
🎄 All I want for Christmas

My next few reads include “Comfort & Joy”, “In a Holidaze”and “A Winter in New York” ❄️

Do you have any holiday books you’d add to the list? 

#wellness #holidayselfcare #healthmas #healthyholiday #healthyhabits #selfcaretips #romanticizeyourlife #iamwellandgood #holidaybooks #selfcaredaily #holidayseason #intentionalliving #mindfulness
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✨ a 10,000 sq ft fitness studio fully stocked with Peloton bikes, TRX equipment, Hyperice recovery station, weights and more
✨ the selection of healthy, colorful food at their Root + Vine restaurant (you can order room service from their menu too!)
✨ their @Westin Well in the lobby offering 3 different types of water to keep you hydrated during your stay 
✨ Bala and Hyperice Gear Lending Kits you can take to your room 
✨ Their Heavenly Bed, robes, slippers and Sleep Well Lavender Balm to help you wind down every evening
✨ Incredible location within walking distance of so many amazing monuments in DC (run path maps coming soon)

What do you all think? Would you book a stay here? 

#MoveWell #EatWell #SleepWell @marriottbonvoy
Instead of finishing the year strong, what if we s Instead of finishing the year strong, what if we slow down and finish it with gratitude & grace? 

This season tends to go by so quickly and here are 3 ways to find ✨peace✨ amongst the chaos: 

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What would you add to this list? 🎄🫶🏼

#wellnesstips #holidayselfcare #healthymindset #mindfulholidays #myyogalife #iamwellandgood
I’m sooo excited because you can now find my @mi I’m sooo excited because you can now find my @mindfulmorningclub planners at the cutest local bookstore & flower shop, @petalsandpagesofdenver 💐📖🍵💕🎉 Watch to the end for a look at their space! 

inventory is getting real low over here and all preorders will start going out in batches next week! If you want one in time for Christmas be sure to place your order online asap 🎅🏼🎁🎄

planner link is in my bio or go to shop.headstandsandheels.com 

#dayinthelife #smallbusinessvlog #plannergirl #packorderswithme #healthyhabits #morningplanner #minivlog #spendadaywithme #productiveday #denverblogger
It’s been a hot min since I’ve shared a #worko It’s been a hot min since I’ve shared a #workoutwednesday routine with you and this one is def gonna bring the 🔥 

I got my 200 hr yoga teacher certification back in 2018 in traditional Vinyasa yoga, but over the years I’ve really leaned towards adding weights to my workouts. I loveee #yogasculpt classes and wanted to share some of my fav moves that I do often! 

SAVE this post for the next time you want to add a little ✨spice✨ to your routine: 

• backward lunge to bicep curl + knee to chest
• down dog alternating toe taps with weight 
• warrior 3 with row and fly 
• boat pose with weighted twist 
• squat to press 

I typically do 30 seconds on with 30 seconds of rest in between the exercises but you can work them into your yoga practice or workout in whatever way works best for you! 🔥

#wellnesswednesday #workoutwithme #workoutroutine #morningroutine #healthylifestyle #healthyliving #wellnessblogger #morningworkout #wellnessgirlie #healthyandhappy #morningaesthetic #morningmotivation
Tis the season for coziness, giving thanks, spendi Tis the season for coziness, giving thanks, spending quality time with the ones you love and finding joy in the little things that make this time of year so special 🎄❤️

Which holiday affirmation is resonating with you today? 

❄️ I am grateful for the people in my life 
💋Today, I choose to spread love and joy
⛄️ I will focus on what I have, instead of wishing for things I don’t 
🎄 My heart is grateful and my mind is at peace 
🎅🏼 Today is a gift and I will stay present and live fully in the moment 
🦌 I have the power to change my life 
🎁 I will reflect and celebrate the progress I’ve made this year 
✨ This season, I will stick to my boundaries and embrace rest when needed 
💕 I will slow down and appreciate the little things 
🍪 My wellbeing is more important than my to do list 

{wellness, self care, mindfulness, healthy lifestyle} 

#homefortheholidays #positiveaffirmations #romanticizeyourlife #gratitude #eveningroutine #littlemoments #lifelately #holidayselfcare #holidaydecor #holidaydecorating #mindfulroutine #happyandhealthy #datenightathome #cozyseason #cozyvibes #cozymoments #hyggehome
It’s #SmallBizSaturday and as a thank you for yo It’s #SmallBizSaturday and as a thank you for your support, I’m offering FREE SHIPPING on all 2024 @mindfulmorningplanner orders through the weekend with code:  SHOPSMALL 💕 {link in bio} 

Lemme tell you, after going through the process of creating my Mindful Morning Planner these past 3 years I have such a new appreciation for all the small businesses out there. 👏🏻 It’s been such a learning process but seeing you all use the planner throughout the past couple years has made it all so worth it. 

I am just SO incredibly grateful for all of you for your support and can’t wait to start shipping out all the preorders soon!!! 🎁

My hope as always is that this planner will help you cultivate a morning routine that leaves you feeling grounded, productive and joyful. xo 💋 

#mindfulroutines #healthylifestyle #2024planner #plannergirl #plannerlove #healthyhabits #healthyroutines #productivitytips #shopsmall #happyandhealthy #intentionalliving #mindbodygram #iamwellandgood #wellnessblogger
My 6th annual Healthy Holiday #GiftGuide is now li My 6th annual Healthy Holiday #GiftGuide is now live on the blog! 🎄🎁 {link in bio} 

I’ve got you covered with 10 categories and 100 gift ideas for friends, loved ones and yourself this season! I give you all the deets in the blog since many of the items you see are things I’ve personally tried, own and love 

✨swipe for a peep at 9 of the gift categories and head to the blog to start shopping✨

PS: I know literally every other influencer is dropping their own gift guide this week so it means the world that you’re choosing to view mine. This is one of my fav posts of the year and I hope it helps you get the PERFECT gift for someone dear to you 🥰

Let me know in the comments who you need help shopping for and I may add in some bonus categories next week! 

#holidaywishlist #healthyholiday #wellnessblogger #selfcareideas #christmascountdown #healthyandhappy #wellnessgirlie #holidaygiftinspo #giftideas #christmas2023 #giftguides #healthyholidays #wellnesswednesday
Let’s make a festive matcha latte with homemade Let’s make a festive matcha latte with homemade gingerbread syrup 🎄❤️ 

If you’re looking for a cheerful sip to get into the holiday spirit I 10/10 recommend making your own syrup to mix into coffee or matcha. It’s super simple and tastes absolutely amaaazing! 

SAVE THIS RECIPE: 

✨ 1 cup water
✨ 1/2 cup brown sugar 
✨ 3 tbsp unsulphured molasses 
✨ 1 tsp ground ginger 
✨ 2 tsp cinnamon 
✨ 1/4 tsp nutmeg 
✨ 1 tsp vanilla extract 
✨ pinch of cloves 

Bring all ingredients expect for the vanilla to a boil and then simmer for 5 min. Stir in vanilla extract and let cool before transferring to a container and storing in fridge! 

I’ll be over here adding this to my morning beverage all season long 💕. Let me know if you’ll be trying it! 

#matchalove #matchalatte #matcharecipe #holidayrecipe #healthylifestyle #happyandhealthy #morningroutine #matchamorning #wellandgoodeats #mindfulroutine #healthyholiday #iamwellandgood  #wellnessblogger #gingerbreadlatte #gingerbreadsyrup
#HappySnaps from #lifelately: ✨ Workouts + wor #HappySnaps from #lifelately: 

✨ Workouts + work trips with my best friend 
✨ Date night at @oliversitalian 🍝🍸
✨ My favorite little furbabies 
✨ It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas 
✨ Playing dress up 📸 
✨ Friendsgiving with my @denverfitfriends team 
✨ The treat I deserve every time I leave my house
✨ Hogwarts Happy Hour 🪄 
✨ “Be Still”
“Just because someone carries it well, doesn’t “Just because someone carries it well, doesn’t mean it isn’t heavy. ”

The challenges we face end up changing us. Sometimes our hearts break and we must pick up the pieces and put them back together. Other times the hardships teach us patience and perseverance. 

Despite it all we keep moving forward. We work, we smile, we make new happy memories. We gain more strength and resilience with the pain we carry. 

Along the way we meet other people who open up about their struggles, and it reminds us that not all battles are fought in the open. That many people carry their pain in silence and that it’s never safe to make assumptions about anyone. 

Everyone is carrying something you know nothing about — so this is a reminder to give people grace and alway, always be kind 🤎

#mythoughts #positivemindset #wellbeing #mentalwellbeing #healthyandhappy #healthylifestyle #growthmindset #havecourageandbekind #iamwellandgood #lifelessons #mindsetmatters #mindfulmoments #mindbodygram
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