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Why Challenging Yourself Is Key To Living Your Best Life

July 17, 2017 By Melanie 1 Comment

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In a world where instant gratification has become the norm, complacency often follows suit. As a society, we want results quick and easy. If things become too difficult we opt out or take the path of least resistance. We find stability in the familiar and form a comfort zone that we very rarely step out of. And it’s one rude awakening whenever that comfort zone gets disturbed.

On the other hand, challenges are daunting. Whether it’s personal or professional, they can make you feel anxious, terrified, or overwhelmed. And yet without them, how would we be able to recognize our greatness? How could we move beyond simply “wishing” or “hoping” for our dreams to come true and actually obtain the things that we want?

T.S. Eliot famously said, “Only those who risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.” And I couldn’t agree more. Without the risk of failure, there is no way to unlock your true potential.

It starts with you. It starts with a simple commitment to push yourself every damn day. To not settle for what you can do and strive to master something you currently can’t do. It’s setting goals and staying true to them. And most importantly, it’s learning how to fail and turn right back around and try again. So ask yourself, when is the last time you challenged yourself? Like, truly stepped out of your comfort zone and did something that pushed yourself – mentally, physically or emotionally?

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As many of you know, my latest challenge took the form of a 200-hour yoga teacher-training program during the month of June. It was truly a life changing experience in many, many ways but what I really loved is that it was NOT easy. By doing something as extreme as taking a month off of work and immersing myself in all things yoga, I challenged myself in a way that I hadn’t done in a very long time. Now that the program is over, I can really sit back and see how much it impacted the way I think and feel.

If you’re looking to start challenging yourself daily, the following are just a few things that recently helped me and that I hope can also impact your own life.

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5 ways to start challenging yourself today:

Map out your goals and an action plan

The action plan is key here. I think too often we become comfortable with dreaming of the future and what it could bring without actually planning out the steps it’ll take to get there. Wishful thinking will do nothing to change your life. Figure out what is important to you and write out the steps it’ll take to get there!

Commit to a daily exercise routine

Prior to YTT I had never exercised every single day for an entire month. Yes, I felt fit before I went into the training but boy did I see a ton of changes in just 4 short weeks. I felt stronger, more flexible and even noticed some physical changes as well (hello abs)! I’m now making a conscious effort to keep the momentum going by signing up for more yoga and fitness classes each week while also doing yoga daily at home.

Eliminate certain foods from your diet

Challenge yourself to omit certain foods that you love but know are not the best for your health, the environment or the welfare of other living beings. No, this doesn’t mean you have to suddenly become vegan (although more power to ya if you can!) but it is about taking a step back and making a conscious decision to do something that you think is right. It could be as big as becoming vegan/vegetarian for a month or as small as cutting out dessert for a week. Whatever it is, make sure that it makes you fight through a craving.

Do something you’re afraid of

This is probably the most difficult one. Stepping out of your comfort zone is scary. Actually, it can be downright terrifying. Whether it’s being asked to do something high level at work or trying to do a new yoga pose, challenges are meant to scare you. Use that fear and the adrenaline in your favor! Tell yourself that you can do it, put your heart into it and give it all you’ve got. Yes you might fall… but what if you fly?

Get up an hour earlier than you’re used to

Trust me you guys, this was one of the biggest struggles for me. It’s been said time and time again that successful people are morning people. Since I am not a morning person by nature, getting up super early for YTT was a challenge in itself. After four weeks of changing my behavior and waking up at 6am, I have forced myself to start waking up early every day since — and I love it! Mornings are quiet; they allow you to be more proactive and to be more mindful of the upcoming day. It’s amazing what even an hour of extra time will do for you.

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Challenging yourself is key to living your best life because challenge is the catalyst to change… and without change there is no growth. So I’m encouraging all you beautiful people to reach for the stars but don’t be afraid to climb the mountain to get there. I believe in you. And I’m always here for you.

With love,

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Note: This post is sponsored by WILL LANE – a brand whose core values promote strength, empowerment, challenge and change. For a chance to win the outfit I’m wearing, head to my Instagram and enter my giveaway! Thanks for supporting the brands I love! ~Mel 

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    July 24, 2017 at 2:41 pm

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Today’s tip is all about leaning into seasonal joys and with it being early summertime that calls for gardening!🪏🪴🫜It’s times like these that I’m SO happy I have my 2025 @Ford Explorer® SUV because the cargo space is perfect for large hauls. 

The available feature back seats fold down with a touch of a button and it’s been a game changer for road trips and grocery shopping. In this case I was able to fill it with multiple bags of soil, a pot and lots of starter flowers, herbs and strawberries! 🍓🌼 

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We made it halfway through 2025 and it’s the per We made it halfway through 2025 and it’s the perfect time for a mid-year reset! Think of this as your invitation to check in on the goals you originally set for yourself, make small shifts to your routine and celebrate how far you’ve come

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✨CELEBRATE THE HIGHLIGHTS✨
This is an opportunity to practice gratitude and honor how much you’ve already grown & gained so far in the past 6 months! Pick your fav photos to be printed, write out your proudest moments and journal your favorite memories 

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✨RECOMMIT TO YOUR WELLBEING✨
Let this reset give you the permission you need to focus on your own wellbeing and realign with routines that support your mental, physical and emotional health 

✨RECONNECT WITH YOUR COMMUNITY✨
Use this time as an opportunity to reach out to the people who light you up and make you feel supported. Make it fun by hosting a small gathering, joining a class or scheduling a fun outing with a friend 

✨GROUND YOURSELF IN THE PRESENT✨
Time moves quickly and it’s up to slow down and savor where we are right now. Take a mindful walk, try a meditation or journal practice, and maybe take a little screen time break to give yourself a chance to just be and reflect 

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✨ sift 1 tsp ceremonial grade matcha powder to remove clumps 
✨ Pour 1/4 cup of hot water, ideally between 160-175 degrees Fahrenheit, over matcha 
✨ Using bamboo whisk, whisk vigorously in a W shape until microfoam forms 

For the blueberry portion, muddle fresh blueberries with blueberry syrup (or make a homemade blueberry syrup by heating blueberries with sugar, lemon juice and water over the stove)

Pour blueberry syrup in glass, add ice, pour in milk of choice and top with matcha for a beautiful layered effect 

Swirl and enjoy! 💙🦋

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Spend a morning with me and my two little pups, Ni Spend a morning with me and my two little pups, Nina and Chip! 💕🐶 Many of you know we adopted both of these cuties years ago and even though our (human) baby has changed up our daily routine, these pups are always along for the ride and have adapted to our new family member beautifully. 

Since wellness is obviously super important to me, you know that means I take EXTRA care with what I feed my pups! 💚 Luckily @crumpsnaturals makes such a wonderful line of all-natural, premium dog treats made with simple ingredients and no artificial
flavors, colors or preservatives! Nina’s fav are the duck mini trainers. 

Chip also really loves their Fish & Superfood Greens meal topper – I just sprinkle it on his food every morning for extra vitamins to help his skin and coat! 

I’m just grateful that it makes caring for my furbaby’s wellbeing super easy and one less thing this busy mama has to think about every day!  #ad ☺️

#morningroutine #healthylifestyle #healthyhabits #morningvibes
Because life is too short to not have a million ho Because life is too short to not have a million hobbies, right? ☺️🦋💕

#healthylifestyle #romanticizeyourlife #cozyhobbies #hobbiesarefun #smalljoys #happyhabits #balancedliving #wellbeing
Where are my #balancedlifestyle girlies at? 🙌🏻🦋💕☀️

#healthylifestyle #morningroutine #healthyandhappy #healthyhabits #romanticizeyourlife #mindfulroutines
When you ✨grow✨ you can’t help but create a When you ✨grow✨ you can’t help but create a beautiful life 

#healthylifestyle #romanticizeyourlife #iamwellandgood #healthyhabits #happyandhealthy #mindfulroutine
When you let your mood dictate what you do, you’ When you let your mood dictate what you do, you’ll never be able to stay consistent with your goals… especially when it comes to your overall wellbeing. Completing that very first task always starts a chain reaction — it’s getting started that’s the hardest part 💕

If you’re ready to start building a #morningroutine filled with #healthyhabits, comment WORKSHEET and I’ll send you my free printable Mindful Morning template to help you get started ☀️🙌🏻

#healthylifestyle #iamwellandgood #mindfulroutines #healthyandhappy #wellnessgirl #selfcarequeen
A little bts of my very first Mommy & Mini Garden A little bts of my very first Mommy & Mini Garden Party I hosted in my backyard yesterday! 🦋🌼🍓

June is my FAV month of the year and this was such a sweet way to kick off the summer season ☀️. I’ve always loved hosting and having an excuse to create magical moments for my baby girl adds an extra layer of joy to it all

Tbh we had a rough week last week so having all the mama friends together and seeing them with their little ones was just what I needed to lift my spirits ☺️💕

Let me know if you have q’s about anything you see here and I’m happy to share! And of course a big thank you to all my mama friends who came out despite it being the hottest day of the year so far 😅

#mamaandme #gardenparty #backyardparty #romanticizeyourlife #smalljoys #happymoments #summerhosting #hostingideas #summervibes #gardenpartyvibes
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Building a stack of habits that change the way you feel mentally, emotionally, and physically for the better is one of the best things you can do for yourself 🥰

If you need some tips on how to get started, here are 5 habits to add to your repertoire:

1️⃣ Schedule alone time: carving out time alone is essential for your wellbeing (even if you’re an extrovert like me). Find ways to make your time feel more special like taking yourself on a solo date 

2️⃣ Clean your space: a clear space = a clear mind, and one of my favorite ways to do this is to allot 30 min each evening for a “closing shift” where you do dishes, tidy up and prep your space so that you can wake up to a clean house

3️⃣ Make time for hobbies: it’s too easy to get caught up in the productivity hustle but making time for things that are just for fun can be the BEST thing for your creativity and mental wellbeing 

4️⃣ Go for a walk: getting in the habit of going outside to get your steps in and breathe in the fresh air is such a great way to reset for the day. There are lots of fun ways to make your walks more interesting, whether you listen to a new podcast or make it a mindful color walk 

5️⃣ Practice presence: the act of noticing your surroundings and fully immersing yourself in the simple moments is a life long practice. If tuning in to yourself is challenging and you find your mind wandering, try slowing down and being intentional to not multi-task and instead focus on one thing at a time 

Be sure to comment WORKSHEET below 👇🏼 if you want me to send you a copy of my free printable Mindful Morning Worksheet that can help you track your healthy habits and set goals for the week ahead 💕

#healthylifestyle #healthyliving #healthyandhappy #romanticizeyourlife #wellbeingtips #wellbeing #wellnessguide #habitsthatwork #wellnessgirl
Who else is excited for life to look like this aga Who else is excited for life to look like this again 🌸🦋☀️🍀

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