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Are you a Dreamer or a Doer?

July 3, 2016 By Melanie No Comments

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There’s something incredibly beautiful about a dream. It’s our wonderful, child-like ability to let our imaginations run rampant and conjure up anything and everything that makes our heart sing. But when does a dream become detrimental to your personal growth?

As a child, I was always dreaming of new adventures, life plans and “the next big thing” that would be fun or inspiring to do. My imagination went hog wild all day, every day and I found a creative outlet through writing and drawing – something that I continue to do today. As I became older, I started realizing the downfall of constant dreaming… it only takes you so far. As beautiful as the dreams are, they remain locked inside your head until you act upon them. And that of course, is the hard part.

I can’t count how many projects I’ve started and never finished… how many aspirations I began working towards and then got bored with. This happened not only to me, but also many of my dear friends. It was a viscous cycle of dreaming and starting and never ever finishing, only to pick back up on another dream and start the process all over again.

When I entered my sophomore year of college I began to realize the importance of not only dreaming, but also doing. That is – the ability to see something through from start to finish, even when it becomes dull or difficult. Yes, being a dreamer is so vital to our purpose in life and it’s the driving force that propels us forward and pushes us to be the best that we can possibly be… but without being a “doer”, these dreams become useless. They’re nothing more than a fairy tale, something that will forever live in our imagination and keep us from achieving that next big thing in life.

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Where do you land on the dreamer/doer scale? Are you constantly starting new projects and never finishing them? Are you letting fear or doubt cloud your judgment and stop you from pursuing the goals you have in place? It’s time to put an end to that today. Being a dreamer is so important – it’s an innocent quality that I never ever think any of us should ever lose. However, it’s equally (if not more) important to be a doer and put those dreams into action.

So dream and dream big. Reach for the stars and more, but then push your fears out of the way and just DO it. It all starts with practicing self-discipline, mapping out your goals and going after them full force. It’s something that I’m continuing to work towards and I hope that we can encourage and inspire each other to do absolutely everything that we put our minds to.

 

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Hi and welcome to Headstands & Heels! I’m Melanie — a Digital Strategist turned Wellness Entrepreneur, certified yoga instructor (RYT 200), dog mama, and content creator based in Denver. I hope to encourage others to follow their dreams and cultivate a healthy, balanced lifestyle filled with mindfulness and positivity. 💕 Send me a note at: mel@headstandsandheels.com

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 For nights when I need some extra support, I take @natrolofficial Sleep & Restore. I love that it features a unique ingredient blend—melatonin to help me fall asleep faster, magnesium to relax my body and GABA to improve my sleep quality (after one week)+. And since they’re not something I need to take often, I appreciate that they are non-habit forming 

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Swipe for our fav  moments from our stay:

✨ Sunrise yoga at @edgenyc 
✨ Sushi, sake and a show 🎶 
✨ Friends don’t copy, they match 💖
✨ Arriving just in time for the sunset 
✨ Happy hour at @leonessarooftop 
✨ Waking up to this view 
✨ Morning at @matchaful 
✨ an iconic Central Park stop 
✨ Mamas at Mamma Mia 
✨ Lobby aesthetic at @conradnydowntown 
✨ Getting ready in fluffy robes 
✨ Making our way to Winter Garden Theater
✨ Getting to FiDi after walking 14 miles 
✨ The best workout at @305fitness 
✨ Blueberry pancake iced latte in DUMBO 
✨ Brunch chats & walks in Brooklyn Heights 
✨ First night out of the trip 
✨ Lobster tacos & a waterfront view 
✨ All pink travel fits 

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It was a looong day of walking and my feet are TIRED today but wow was it worth it! If you’re ever in NYC I def recommend doing the “broad city walk” challenge and trying this out yourself. I promise you won’t regret it 

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You all know I love my “move, nourish, self-care” formula for mindful morning routines and this time, that looked like:

✨making my bed (the love for gingham continues) 
✨a BIG second pumpkin spice cake coffee topped with cinnamon in my Luke’s Diner mug 
✨B and I baked a homemade pumpkin cinnamon sourdough loaf together (my first time!) and it is sooo good
✨ never skipping the skincare essentials, especially a chilled balm for these tired mama eyes 
✨ a chocolate brown matching set is def the vibe this season 
✨ squeezed in a 30 min barre sculpt workout and it was spicy 

I hope you all are able to get offline and do a few things to fill your cup today ❤️🧸 

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The focus shifts away from “things” and leans more into small rituals that make you feel grounded, content and present in the moment 

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✨create cozy morning rituals✨

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✨make meals feel special ✨

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✨ add touches of warmth & softness✨

Keep extra blankets nearby, switch to lamps or candlelight in the evening, and rotate in seasonal accents to make your home feel more inviting 

✨bring nature inside✨

Hygge is all about being connected to the natural world — so open up the window to let the crisp air in, buy yourself a seasonal bouquet, or use pumpkins to decorate your home 

✨make time for connection✨

Life is all about who we share it with and cozy season is a great excuse to meet your friend for a PSL, have more family dinners, and host comforting gatherings with loved ones 

✨embrace slow evenings✨

Create a sense of calm before bed by creating slow, intentional rituals. Make a cup of tea, read a book or do a calming hobby, and put on comfy loungewear 

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#ad The key to a good morning starts with how you #ad The key to a good morning starts with how you spend your evenings, which is why I’ve been doing my best to create more intentional ways to unwind and promote a restful night sleep 😴 

Most evenings the little habits like an everything shower, followed by a hot cup of peppermint tea in my cozy pajamas and reading a book in bed are enough to do the trick

 For nights when I need some extra support, I take @natrolofficial Sleep & Restore. I love that it features a unique ingredient blend—melatonin to help me fall asleep faster, magnesium to relax my body and GABA to improve my sleep quality (after one week)+. And since they’re not something I need to take often, I appreciate that they are non-habit forming 

What are some cozy rituals you like to incorporate into your evenings for a more restful sleep? 

 #cozyevening #eveningvibes #eveningselfcare #selfcareinspo #cozyrituals #autumnmood
#happysnaps from NYC 🚕 📸 Despite it being #happysnaps from NYC 🚕 📸 

Despite it being my first time away from my little girl and experiencing the most intense mom guilt, we had such a fun trip with a very FULL itinerary 

Swipe for our fav  moments from our stay:

✨ Sunrise yoga at @edgenyc 
✨ Sushi, sake and a show 🎶 
✨ Friends don’t copy, they match 💖
✨ Arriving just in time for the sunset 
✨ Happy hour at @leonessarooftop 
✨ Waking up to this view 
✨ Morning at @matchaful 
✨ an iconic Central Park stop 
✨ Mamas at Mamma Mia 
✨ Lobby aesthetic at @conradnydowntown 
✨ Getting ready in fluffy robes 
✨ Making our way to Winter Garden Theater
✨ Getting to FiDi after walking 14 miles 
✨ The best workout at @305fitness 
✨ Blueberry pancake iced latte in DUMBO 
✨ Brunch chats & walks in Brooklyn Heights 
✨ First night out of the trip 
✨ Lobster tacos & a waterfront view 
✨ All pink travel fits 

This was my 6th time being back in the city since moving away several years ago and it’ll never get old. Just makes me excited to bring Lily here someday 🫶🏼🍎 

A huge thank you to @conradnydowntown for hosting us! We couldn’t have asked for a more beautiful, comfortable stay 

#girlstrip #nyctrip #newmoms #momstrip #thingstodoinnyc #nyclife #lovenyc #lifelately #makethememories #cameracrumbs #pinterestaesthetic #pinterestinspo #pinterestvibes
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NYC sips & eats featured:

@butlerbakeshop 
@leonessarooftop 
@sushilab.nyc 
@pjclarkes 
@bluestonelane 
@olioepiu 
@_mamannyc_ 

Send this to someone you want to go on a girls trip with! 🥂

#girlstrip #nyceats #nyclife #travelinspo #traveldiary #newyorkcity #cheers
A slow, cozy morning with the best views at the @c A slow, cozy morning with the best views at the @conradnydowntown 🌸🫶🏼👟 

This has hands down been my favorite stay in NYC — between the convenient location, beautiful riverfront view, huge suite, filtered water station, lovely rooftop bar and gorgeous design & amenities, it’s the perfect spot for your next New York vacation 🚕 

#giftedstay #girlstrip #morningroutine #morningvibes #morningslikethis #morningasmr #romanticizeyourlife #nyclife #visitnyc #newyorkcityvibes #softgirlera
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It was a looong day of walking and my feet are TIRED today but wow was it worth it! If you’re ever in NYC I def recommend doing the “broad city walk” challenge and trying this out yourself. I promise you won’t regret it 

Shoutout to @shaylaquinn for the inspo 👟

Is this something YOU’LL add to your bucket list? 

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The girl’s trip finally made it out of the chat The girl’s trip finally made it out of the chat and I couldn’t be more excited for it! 💬🌸 And yes we did show up at the airport in matching pink outfits because life is too short to not be a little extra, right? 

Peep my stories to find out our destination… but if you know me, you probably already know where we are headed 😉

#mentalhealthwalk #airportoutfit #girlstrip #girlhood #romanticizeyourlife #travelfit
Spend a cozy morning filled with a few of my fav f Spend a cozy morning filled with a few of my fav feel good rituals that help set a positive tone for the day 🤎 … and since my day really starts around 6am with bbg, I really cherish this “me time” during her first nap

You all know I love my “move, nourish, self-care” formula for mindful morning routines and this time, that looked like:

✨making my bed (the love for gingham continues) 
✨a BIG second pumpkin spice cake coffee topped with cinnamon in my Luke’s Diner mug 
✨B and I baked a homemade pumpkin cinnamon sourdough loaf together (my first time!) and it is sooo good
✨ never skipping the skincare essentials, especially a chilled balm for these tired mama eyes 
✨ a chocolate brown matching set is def the vibe this season 
✨ squeezed in a 30 min barre sculpt workout and it was spicy 

I hope you all are able to get offline and do a few things to fill your cup today ❤️🧸 

#morningroutine #morningslikethis #fallvibes #autumnreset #softliving #cozylifestyle #hygge #cozyseason #healthyandhappy #smalljoys #softgirlera #hyggehabits
It’s me, hi, I’m the problem it’s me 🤎 (f It’s me, hi, I’m the problem it’s me 🤎 (fall edition 😉)

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This is your sign to celebrate Harry Potter season This is your sign to celebrate Harry Potter season with an outdoor movie night! We added all the cozy fixin’s with lots of blankets, a roaring fire, candlelight and of course s’mores and sips✨💛🪄

{you can find the recipe for the apple cider cocktails in one of my previous reels}

Send this to someone you want to have a Harry Potter outdoor movie night with! 

#harrypotterseason #falliscoming #cozyseason #cozyvibesonly #datenightideas #cozyathome #autumnvibes🍁 #harrypotteraesthetic #outdoormovienight
One thing motherhood has taught me? Life becomes i One thing motherhood has taught me? Life becomes instantly sweeter when you learn to stop measuring days by how 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘥𝘶𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦 you are and focus instead on how 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘦𝘯𝘵 you can be 🤎 

#lifelately #cameraroll #littlejoys #cameracrumbs #photodump❤️
As the seasons start to shift, it’s a great time As the seasons start to shift, it’s a great time to welcome a little more hygge (a danish concept that is all about creating a quality of coziness and comfort) into our lives 🤎🧸

The focus shifts away from “things” and leans more into small rituals that make you feel grounded, content and present in the moment 

Here are 6 ways to add more hygge into your daily routines:

✨create cozy morning rituals✨

Instead of rushing into the day, try adding one or two elements to your mornings that feel a bit more calm and intentional. For example you can play soft music while you get ready or light your favorite candle while sipping on your coffee ☕️ 

✨make meals feel special ✨

Make mealtime extra cozy and mindful by putting away electronics, using your favorite plates & glassware, or making dishes that evoke a sense of nostalgia and childhood comfort 

✨ add touches of warmth & softness✨

Keep extra blankets nearby, switch to lamps or candlelight in the evening, and rotate in seasonal accents to make your home feel more inviting 

✨bring nature inside✨

Hygge is all about being connected to the natural world — so open up the window to let the crisp air in, buy yourself a seasonal bouquet, or use pumpkins to decorate your home 

✨make time for connection✨

Life is all about who we share it with and cozy season is a great excuse to meet your friend for a PSL, have more family dinners, and host comforting gatherings with loved ones 

✨embrace slow evenings✨

Create a sense of calm before bed by creating slow, intentional rituals. Make a cup of tea, read a book or do a calming hobby, and put on comfy loungewear 

How are you adding a little more coziness into your routine this autumn? 

#fallmood #fallvibes #cozyseason #littlejoys #cozyrituals #comfortcreator #softwellness
I don’t know who needs to hear this but cozy hob I don’t know who needs to hear this but cozy hobbies are 100% the self-care we all need in this busy season of life 🎨 

I’ll be sharing some of my personal favorites all season long and the first up are these adorable watercolor books… which are basically the adult version of coloring

They’re the perfect activity to unwind, get creative and intentionally get off your phone 😉. Bonus — each page includes a step by step so they are very beginner friendly AND they only take about 10-15 min. Perfect for squeezing in when you’re short on time but need a min to just “be” 

Let me know if you’re excited to see more cozy crafts & hobby ideas for fall and the upcoming holiday season! I have lots of new things I want to try and can’t wait to share 🤎

#cozyhobbies #hobbies #selfcaretips #fallvibes #autumncrafts #autumnselfcare #intentionalliving #mindfulmoments #softwellness #happyhabits
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