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12 Personal Growth Books to Inspire You in 2025

December 27, 2024 By Melanie No Comments

When I shared my first roundup of personal growth books a year ago, it quickly became one of my most popular posts, so I’m bringing it back with a whole new list of 12 incredible books to inspire your 2025 journey! This mix of essay collections, self improvement books, and memoirs tackle everything from nurturing meaningful relationships to embracing stillness, navigating stress, and rediscovering the beauty in life’s smallest moments. No matter what your intentions or goals are for this year, I think you’ll find something that will spark your curiosity and give you the practical tools and encouragement you need to pursue them. So grab a cup of tea, cozy up, and pick your next read!

1. The Power of Ritual by Casper ter Kuile

Read this if…you love romanticizing the mundane in your daily life and you want your routines to feel more meaningful and intentional

What’s it about? The Power of Ritual explores how incorporating intentional practices into our daily lives can create deeper meaning, connection, and a sense of sacredness. Drawing on ancient traditions, modern habits, and personal stories, Casper te Kuile shows how simple activities—like journaling, exercising, or sharing meals—can be transformed into rituals that nurture our relationships with ourselves, others, and nature. 

2. Big Friendship by Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman

Read this if…you want something to read with your bestie that will give you a fresh perspective on the importance of friendships

What’s it about? In Big Friendship: How We Keep Each Other Close, Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman delve into the complexities and joys of sustaining long-term, meaningful friendships. Through personal anecdotes and research, the two friends explore the emotional depth and work required to navigate challenges, foster trust, and build resilience in relationships. With honesty and humor, they offer a heartfelt look at how true friendship evolves and why it deserves as much care and commitment as romantic or family bonds. 

3. Quiet by Susan Cain

Read this if…you’re an introvert who has ever felt out of place in a world built for extroverts

What’s it about? In Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking, Susan Cain explores the unique strengths and contributions of introverts in a society that often values extroversion. Drawing on research, personal stories, and historical examples, Cain highlights the power of solitude, deep thinking, and quiet reflection in fostering creativity and innovation. This book will leave you feeling seen and valued and help you embrace the beauty of your introverted qualities. 

4. Everything, Beautiful by Elle Frances Sanders

Read this if…you’ve been feeling a little disillusioned or disheartened

What’s it about? This part-journal, part-essay collection is an invitation to rediscover wonder and joy in life’s small, often overlooked details. Sanders explores how beauty exists in the imperfect, the mundane, and the fleeting moments of our daily lives. The book is also a thing of beauty in itself, filled with gorgeous illustrations on every page. It’s perfect for reading a few pages a day as a reminder to slow down, look closer, and find magic in the world around you.

5. Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker

Read this if…you’re that person who always says, “I’ll sleep when I’m dead”

What’s it about? One of the most essential, yet also most overlooked, elements of good health is getting a good night’s sleep.In Why We Sleep, neuroscientist Matthew Walker explores the critical role sleep plays in every aspect of our physical and mental health, from boosting memory and creativity to regulating emotions and immunity. You’ll be left a new appreciation for a good night’s sleep and the practical tips you need to up your sleep hygiene game.

6. My Inner Sky by Mari Andrew

Read this if…you’ve been navigating a lot of big emotions lately and want something that feels like an encouraging letter from a friend

What’s it about? My Inner Sky is a heartfelt collection of essays and illustrations by Mari Andrew, exploring the many emotions that shape our lives—joy, sorrow, hope, and everything in between. Andrew reflects on personal growth, resilience, and the beauty of finding light even in life’s darkest moments. This collection will inspire you to embrace all of your emotions with compassion and curiosity and find meaning in every season of your life.

7. A Renaissance of Our Own by Rachel Cargle

Read this if…you’re looking for the courage to imagine new possibilities for yourself and the world

What’s it about? In A Renaissance of Our Own, Rachel Cargle shares her deeply personal journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and transformation. Through Cargle’s reflections on her experiences as a writer, activist, and entrepreneur, this book will challenge you to question societal norms and find the courage to carve out a life that honors your unique values and vision for your life and the world. 

8. The Upside of Stress by Kelly McGonigal

Read this if…you want to cultivate a healthier response to stress

What’s it about? Stress is an inevitable part of life, so rather than making futile attempts to avoid it completely, The Upside of Stress focuses on the power of shifting our perspective on stress to transform challenges into opportunities. McGonigal provides practical tools and insights for harnessing stress and Thinking of stress as a powerful force that can enhance resilience, performance, and growth when approached with the right mindset, Kelly McGonigal With practical tools and insights, the book empowers readers to harness stress for greater meaning and success in their lives.

9. Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller

Read this if…you want to find ways to strengthen your relationship with your partner

What’s it about? Attached explores the science of attachment styles and the impact they have  on how we form and sustain relationships. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller break down the three main attachment styles—secure, anxious, and avoidant—offering insights into why people behave the way they do in love. With practical advice and self-assessment tools, this book can help you build stronger, healthier, and more fulfilling connections by understanding your own attachment patterns and those of your partner.

10. Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily Nagoski and Amelia Nagoski

Read this if…you keep finding yourself caught in a vicious burnout cycle

What’s it about? This book explores the root causes of burnout, particularly in women, and how societal pressures exacerbate stress. The authors introduce the concept of the stress cycle and provide actionable steps to help you manage your mental and physical well-being. Through science-backed insights and practical advice, they offer a roadmap to break free from chronic stress and reclaim joy and balance in life

11. You’re Not Listening: What You’re Missing and Why It Matters by Kate Murphy

Read this if…you want to be able to connect more deeply with people

What’s it about? Murphy explores the lost art of listening in a fast-paced, distracted world, highlighting its vital role in building meaningful connections. Drawing on interviews with experts and real-world examples, she reveals the common barriers to listening and how to overcome them. You’ll come away feeling inspired to become more present, empathetic, and engaged in your conversations. And let’s be honest, we could all use some practice becoming better listeners. 

12. I Didn’t Do the Thing Today by Madeleine Dore

Read this if…you constantly feel guilty for not being productive enough

What’s it about? This reflective and relatable book challenges society’s obsession with productivity and the guilt that comes with feeling like we’re not doing enough. Dore shares personal stories, interviews, and insights that reframe our relationship with time and embrace the unpredictability of life. By encouraging self-compassion and flexibility, she offers a refreshing perspective on finding meaning and self-worth beyond our to-do lists.

I hope these books inspire and encourage you as you embark on your own personal growth journeys throughout this year, and if one of your goals is to read more books, check out my post all about rediscovering your inner bookworm! 

What other books are on your 2025 TBR list? Let me know in the comments!

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Romanticizing a cozy, festive weekend morning with
Romanticizing a cozy, festive weekend morning with my little family🎄

If you thought Christmastime was magical as a child, I’m telling you… just wait until you’re a parent. There are so many beautiful and fun activities I want to do with my daughter and to think we have years of this ahead of us makes my heart so happy. 

There are only 6 more Saturdays till Christmas and I don’t think it’s enough🥹 

{ps we thrifted this little Christmas tree toy for her and she is obsessed! It’s the cutest way to start our mornings now that holiday season is in full swing} 

#romanticizeyourlife #newmom #holidaymorning #morningroutine #cozyseazon #morningslikethis #christmasaesthetic #christmasiscoming🎄

#QNPartner Cozy season is in full swing and it’s
#QNPartner Cozy season is in full swing and it’s the perfect opportunity to embrace a softer version of wellness that allows us to slow down and savor this busy time of year. Here are a few things I’m personally doing that I think you’ll love too:

✨Savor my coffee outdoors near the fire
✨Opt for more home cooked meals that lean into warming, fall flavors
✨Add cozy, self-care elements to my home like non-toxic candles and @quiltednorthern toilet paper. It’s our go to because it’s crafted with  3 layers for maximum comfort and ultimate softness.
✨Make time for cozy hobbies instead of doomscrolling or binge watching tv

What are some of your favorite ways to practice #selfcare and take care of yourself during cozy season?
 
Check out this link for the coziest Quilted Northern® products. https://lnks.co/vP6hntC 

#softwellness #softgirlera #cozyseason #intentionalliving #selfcaretips #wellnessrituals

I’m so excited to present the ultimate Cozy Chri
I’m so excited to present the ultimate Cozy Christmas Starter Kit to help you make the most of this joyous, festive season! 🎄 

And if you still think it’s too early to get in the holiday spirit, don’t blame me… blame Starbucks for releasing their holiday flavors today 😉

All jokes aside, I’m personally really ready for all the fun Christmas crafts, holiday parties, and sharing old (and starting new!) traditions with my daughter for the first time

Inside this “kit” you’ll find:
✨a seasonal affirmation & journal prompt 
✨holiday cheer - acts of kindness bingo 
✨diy Christmas decor ideas 
✨festive cocktails for hosting 
✨holiday date ideas 
✨holiday party inspo to bring friends together
✨a very merry bucket list 
✨finding your perfect Christmas mug 
✨and an important reminder 

Be sure to save and spread the joy! 🥰 

And if you’re willing to share, I’d love to know what YOUR favorite holiday traditions or activities are! 

#christmastime #holidayspirit #cozychristmas #holidayseason #holidaybucketlist

One of the most difficult parts of being a new mom
One of the most difficult parts of being a new mom has been learning how to let go of the need to constantly be “productive”

and as a chronic overachiever, I’ve struggled a lot with tying self-worth to productivity. Which means accepting that my goals might take more of a backseat right now has been extra challenging

one thing that has helped shift my mindset was acknowledging that slowing down does NOT mean that I’m failing. In fact, days or even seasons of slowness are an important part of life and crucial for our overall physical and emotional wellbeing

Being able to reframe the classic thought pattern of “I did nothing today” to one of these more positive phrases is a helpful way to place the emphasis on self-care and acknowledge that there is joy to be found in slowing down 

if this post finds you, I hope it serves as a helpful validation that sometimes ✨rest✨ is truly the most important thing you can do for yourself 💕

#romanticizeyourlife #intentionaliving #softwellness #softgirlera #slowliving #healthylifestyle

As we enter what may feel like the busiest time of
As we enter what may feel like the busiest time of year, let this be your guide to ✨resetting your nervous system✨ so that you can help regulate stress and return to a state of calm 

GIVE YOURSELF A RELEASE
when your body just needs to let go of any pent up tension, stress or anxiety — movement and allowing yourself to FEEL all of the emotions can be the best medicine

GROUND YOURSELF IN THE PRESENT
after releasing the feelings and energy, try a few grounding practices to reorient your nervous system and come back to the present moment 

ACTIVATE THE RELAXATION RESPONSE
slow down and help your body transition to the parasympathetic nervous system (otherwise known as the “rest & digest” state) with activities like breathwork, yoga, or even a long hug 

GET SUPPORT FROM LOVED ONES
intentionally surround yourself with people who help you regulate your stress vs add to it. The feeling of being safe and supported can’t ever be underestimated 

PRIORITIZE DEEP REST 
at the end of the day, practicing good sleep hygiene and prioritizing rest can be the best thing you do for your mind and body. These restorative moments allow for your nervous system to truly reset and recover 

Be sure to SAVE this post for whenever you may need it this holiday season and share it if you feel like it would be helpful to anyone you know! 💕

#mindfulmoments #cozyvibes #healthyliving #cozyrituals #joyfulliving #hygge #selfcaretips

My little beanie babies ❤️

I know this post i
My little beanie babies ❤️

I know this post is coming a bit late buuuut I loved this quick DIY costume so much and figured it deserved a spot on the feed! 

#babiesfirsthalloween #dogsandbabies #lovemylittlefamily #newmomlife #romanticizeyourlife #fallphotodump #familyhalloween


What my weekend is currently looking like 🥰

#
What my weekend is currently looking like 🥰 

#countdowntochristmas🎄 #christmasdecor #tistheseason #romanticizeyourlife #holidayseason


It’s the beginning of the most wonderful time of
It’s the beginning of the most wonderful time of year and my absolute favorite holiday🎄❤️

I know Nov 1st may seem a little early to start celebrating the Christmas season for some but I always feel like this time of year flies by too fast. So decorating our home early and starting all the fun Christmas baking, crafts and festive activities feels like a special way to make the most of the holidays ❤️

Who else will be spending the weekend decorating? 

#romanticizeyourlife #holidayseason #christmastimeishere #smalljoys

The person who sent you this wants to have a spook
The person who sent you this wants to have a spooky date night in to celebrate Halloween 🎃

Halloween isn’t my fav holiday but I do love a themed cozy evening with my favorite person… and it feels even more special these days as new parents. So we decided to have a SPOOKY date complete with homemade pizzas (with ghost shaped mozzarella), blackberry smash cocktails, a candle painting craft, pumpkin ice cream, and a rewatch of “Haunting of Bly Manor” 🖤 

PS: I’m not a big horror movie fan but this show is such a well done metaphor of how grief can haunt you and the tone feels much more gothic romance than classic jump scares 

Anywaaay, after tomorrow I’m looking forward to decorating our home for Christmas and you can expect lots of cozy, whimsical ideas to savor and celebrate the holiday season coming soon ☺️

#datenightin #cozyseason #halloweenishere #romanticizeyourlife #datenightideas

Is it just me, or is fall flying by? 🧡

Here a
Is it just me, or is fall flying by? 🧡 

Here are a few of my #fallfavorites from the archives featuring lots of leaf peeping, spooky treats, and fun moments with family and friends.

#lifelately #autumnarchives #fallgirl #cozygirlfall #cozyseason #babiesfirstfall #romanticizelife #simplejoys #newmomlife #fallphotodump


Bringing you behind the scenes of the Halloween Ri
Bringing you behind the scenes of the Halloween Ride & Haunted Happy Hour I hosted for my @denverfitfriends community this past weekend! 👻 🎶 

The gals showed up in costume and @ritual_indoorcycling led us through such a fun 45 min ride with all the best spooky vibes 🖤 

A big thank you to our vendors @alythactive, @truvani and @drinkparch for making this an extra special experience! 

I have one last DenFit event planned for November to wrap up the year so if you’re in the Denver area stay tuned for details coming sooooon ✨☺️

#denverfitfriends #denfit #denverfitnesscommunity #denverfitness #dayinmylife #halloweenevent #wellnessgirl

“When we are together darling, every night is Ha
“When we are together darling, every night is Halloween.” 🖤

Lily was invited to her first Halloween party yesterday so we obviously had to dress up as one of the most iconic, creepy + kooky families ever! And I know I’m so biased but I don’t think I’ve seen a cuter Wednesday Addams 🥹

Such a fun way to celebrate spooky season (and a pretty easy family costume if you’re in need of something last minute!) 

But what do you guys think? Is it creepy or cute? 👇🏼

#addamsfamily #familyhalloweencostumes #halloweenparty #wednesdayaddams #familyhalloween #theaddamsfamily #babiesfirsthalloween


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Romanticizing a cozy, festive weekend morning with Romanticizing a cozy, festive weekend morning with my little family🎄

If you thought Christmastime was magical as a child, I’m telling you… just wait until you’re a parent. There are so many beautiful and fun activities I want to do with my daughter and to think we have years of this ahead of us makes my heart so happy. 

There are only 6 more Saturdays till Christmas and I don’t think it’s enough🥹 

{ps we thrifted this little Christmas tree toy for her and she is obsessed! It’s the cutest way to start our mornings now that holiday season is in full swing} 

#romanticizeyourlife #newmom #holidaymorning #morningroutine #cozyseazon #morningslikethis #christmasaesthetic #christmasiscoming🎄
#QNPartner Cozy season is in full swing and it’s #QNPartner Cozy season is in full swing and it’s the perfect opportunity to embrace a softer version of wellness that allows us to slow down and savor this busy time of year. Here are a few things I’m personally doing that I think you’ll love too:

✨Savor my coffee outdoors near the fire
✨Opt for more home cooked meals that lean into warming, fall flavors
✨Add cozy, self-care elements to my home like non-toxic candles and @quiltednorthern toilet paper. It’s our go to because it’s crafted with  3 layers for maximum comfort and ultimate softness.
✨Make time for cozy hobbies instead of doomscrolling or binge watching tv

What are some of your favorite ways to practice #selfcare and take care of yourself during cozy season?
 
Check out this link for the coziest Quilted Northern® products. https://lnks.co/vP6hntC 

#softwellness #softgirlera #cozyseason #intentionalliving #selfcaretips #wellnessrituals
I’m so excited to present the ultimate Cozy Chri I’m so excited to present the ultimate Cozy Christmas Starter Kit to help you make the most of this joyous, festive season! 🎄 

And if you still think it’s too early to get in the holiday spirit, don’t blame me… blame Starbucks for releasing their holiday flavors today 😉

All jokes aside, I’m personally really ready for all the fun Christmas crafts, holiday parties, and sharing old (and starting new!) traditions with my daughter for the first time

Inside this “kit” you’ll find:
✨a seasonal affirmation & journal prompt 
✨holiday cheer - acts of kindness bingo 
✨diy Christmas decor ideas 
✨festive cocktails for hosting 
✨holiday date ideas 
✨holiday party inspo to bring friends together
✨a very merry bucket list 
✨finding your perfect Christmas mug 
✨and an important reminder 

Be sure to save and spread the joy! 🥰 

And if you’re willing to share, I’d love to know what YOUR favorite holiday traditions or activities are! 

#christmastime #holidayspirit #cozychristmas #holidayseason #holidaybucketlist
One of the most difficult parts of being a new mom One of the most difficult parts of being a new mom has been learning how to let go of the need to constantly be “productive”

and as a chronic overachiever, I’ve struggled a lot with tying self-worth to productivity. Which means accepting that my goals might take more of a backseat right now has been extra challenging

one thing that has helped shift my mindset was acknowledging that slowing down does NOT mean that I’m failing. In fact, days or even seasons of slowness are an important part of life and crucial for our overall physical and emotional wellbeing

Being able to reframe the classic thought pattern of “I did nothing today” to one of these more positive phrases is a helpful way to place the emphasis on self-care and acknowledge that there is joy to be found in slowing down 

if this post finds you, I hope it serves as a helpful validation that sometimes ✨rest✨ is truly the most important thing you can do for yourself 💕

#romanticizeyourlife #intentionaliving #softwellness #softgirlera #slowliving #healthylifestyle
As we enter what may feel like the busiest time of As we enter what may feel like the busiest time of year, let this be your guide to ✨resetting your nervous system✨ so that you can help regulate stress and return to a state of calm 

GIVE YOURSELF A RELEASE
when your body just needs to let go of any pent up tension, stress or anxiety — movement and allowing yourself to FEEL all of the emotions can be the best medicine

GROUND YOURSELF IN THE PRESENT
after releasing the feelings and energy, try a few grounding practices to reorient your nervous system and come back to the present moment 

ACTIVATE THE RELAXATION RESPONSE
slow down and help your body transition to the parasympathetic nervous system (otherwise known as the “rest & digest” state) with activities like breathwork, yoga, or even a long hug 

GET SUPPORT FROM LOVED ONES
intentionally surround yourself with people who help you regulate your stress vs add to it. The feeling of being safe and supported can’t ever be underestimated 

PRIORITIZE DEEP REST 
at the end of the day, practicing good sleep hygiene and prioritizing rest can be the best thing you do for your mind and body. These restorative moments allow for your nervous system to truly reset and recover 

Be sure to SAVE this post for whenever you may need it this holiday season and share it if you feel like it would be helpful to anyone you know! 💕

#mindfulmoments #cozyvibes #healthyliving #cozyrituals #joyfulliving #hygge #selfcaretips
My little beanie babies ❤️ I know this post i My little beanie babies ❤️

I know this post is coming a bit late buuuut I loved this quick DIY costume so much and figured it deserved a spot on the feed! 

#babiesfirsthalloween #dogsandbabies #lovemylittlefamily #newmomlife #romanticizeyourlife #fallphotodump #familyhalloween
What my weekend is currently looking like 🥰 # What my weekend is currently looking like 🥰 

#countdowntochristmas🎄 #christmasdecor #tistheseason #romanticizeyourlife #holidayseason
It’s the beginning of the most wonderful time of It’s the beginning of the most wonderful time of year and my absolute favorite holiday🎄❤️

I know Nov 1st may seem a little early to start celebrating the Christmas season for some but I always feel like this time of year flies by too fast. So decorating our home early and starting all the fun Christmas baking, crafts and festive activities feels like a special way to make the most of the holidays ❤️

Who else will be spending the weekend decorating? 

#romanticizeyourlife #holidayseason #christmastimeishere #smalljoys
The person who sent you this wants to have a spook The person who sent you this wants to have a spooky date night in to celebrate Halloween 🎃

Halloween isn’t my fav holiday but I do love a themed cozy evening with my favorite person… and it feels even more special these days as new parents. So we decided to have a SPOOKY date complete with homemade pizzas (with ghost shaped mozzarella), blackberry smash cocktails, a candle painting craft, pumpkin ice cream, and a rewatch of “Haunting of Bly Manor” 🖤 

PS: I’m not a big horror movie fan but this show is such a well done metaphor of how grief can haunt you and the tone feels much more gothic romance than classic jump scares 

Anywaaay, after tomorrow I’m looking forward to decorating our home for Christmas and you can expect lots of cozy, whimsical ideas to savor and celebrate the holiday season coming soon ☺️

#datenightin #cozyseason #halloweenishere #romanticizeyourlife #datenightideas
Is it just me, or is fall flying by? 🧡 Here a Is it just me, or is fall flying by? 🧡 

Here are a few of my #fallfavorites from the archives featuring lots of leaf peeping, spooky treats, and fun moments with family and friends.

#lifelately #autumnarchives #fallgirl #cozygirlfall #cozyseason #babiesfirstfall #romanticizelife #simplejoys #newmomlife #fallphotodump
Bringing you behind the scenes of the Halloween Ri Bringing you behind the scenes of the Halloween Ride & Haunted Happy Hour I hosted for my @denverfitfriends community this past weekend! 👻 🎶 

The gals showed up in costume and @ritual_indoorcycling led us through such a fun 45 min ride with all the best spooky vibes 🖤 

A big thank you to our vendors @alythactive, @truvani and @drinkparch for making this an extra special experience! 

I have one last DenFit event planned for November to wrap up the year so if you’re in the Denver area stay tuned for details coming sooooon ✨☺️

#denverfitfriends #denfit #denverfitnesscommunity #denverfitness #dayinmylife #halloweenevent #wellnessgirl
“When we are together darling, every night is Ha “When we are together darling, every night is Halloween.” 🖤

Lily was invited to her first Halloween party yesterday so we obviously had to dress up as one of the most iconic, creepy + kooky families ever! And I know I’m so biased but I don’t think I’ve seen a cuter Wednesday Addams 🥹

Such a fun way to celebrate spooky season (and a pretty easy family costume if you’re in need of something last minute!) 

But what do you guys think? Is it creepy or cute? 👇🏼

#addamsfamily #familyhalloweencostumes #halloweenparty #wednesdayaddams #familyhalloween #theaddamsfamily #babiesfirsthalloween
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